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Student Leaders Make a Big Difference

1/29/2014

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There is overwhelming research that shows students are influenced by their peers. Most of us didn't need a research study to tell us that so we're going to skip the statistics and jump straight to the good stuff. This influence can be for good or for bad. As a student leader you obviously are not just a peer, but someone who other students follow. Even when you don't think others are paying attention to what you're doing, they are. You have a tremendous opportunity to do good, to make a difference that will impact your club, team or school in a powerful way. But you also have the opportunity to ruin those groups and bring others down in the process. It’s up to you. To pretend like your role as a student leader doesn't matter is simply unrealistic. Yours is an important responsibility.

But what we see is that many student leaders around the world are choosing to make a positive difference. How can you make sure that you are having the impact you want as a student leader at your school? Check out some characteristics of student leaders who we have found that are making a difference.

1.     Realize the power of your influence: There is no denying it; people are going to watch and follow you. When you realize you are in a position of influence, it should cause you to think twice about your actions. Consistently model the behavior you wish to see from those around you. You cannot expect others to do what you are not willing to do yourself. What are you willing to do each day to make things better?

It is said that Yankee’s captain Derek Jeter is the first to enter the field before practice and the last to leave. Can you see how this simple example would naturally influence his teammates to work harder and longer which will inevitably increase the success of the team? As a student leader you have the opportunity to do unprecedented things and to change lives with your influence. That might seem a little far-fetched and cliche, but it's the reality of your situation.

2.     Focus on Individuals: Too often leaders focus on the masses and fail to recognize the power of each individual within their organization. Don’t let this be you. Help your team or group realize its potential by first helping each individual to see their full potential and the unique contributions their talents make to the group. If they do not see these talents in themselves, help them to. Encourage them and give them assignments that will cause them to see those talents they have.

Napoleon Hill(author of "Think and Grow Rich") once said, “Think twice before you speak, because your words and influence will plant the seed of either success or failure in the mind of another.” Student leaders will always find greater success by building their team up one by one.

3.     Set the vision: Author Joel Barker wisely remarked, “Vision without action is merely a dream. Action without vision just passes the time. Vision with action can change the world.” Help your team to see beyond their day to day activities to the ultimate goal and destination. Don’t just simply go through the motions. Rather, help your team see that what they do everyday contributes to that ultimate vision of what your organization can be and where it can go. The day to day things make much more sense when seen in the light of the organization’s vision. The difference a clear vision makes will last much longer than your time at your school. Help your team to buy into that vision and amazing things can happen in your school.

We have seen that the capacity to make a difference lies within every student leader. As you focus every day on doing the little things (setting the example, building up your team, focusing on the vision) the big things will fall smoothly into place. As a student leader, you have the power to make a lasting difference in your school and community. It is up to you! No, really, it is.


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Oprah's Wise Words of Passion and Service

1/24/2014

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In the spirit of this graduation season we took some time to review a commencement speech given by Oprah Winfrey on the campus of Stanford University. The speech was delivered in the spring of 2008. The advice she offered shows evidence of a life filled with passion, wisdom, and purpose. I share with you a few of the insights she articulated on living a productive life.

This life is a school: Our lives are like a school and often the lessons come in the form of problems, obstacles and at times, crisis. The secret, Oprah says, is being open to learning lessons from life as they come. It is being able to walk through life open to self improvement and that which is going to best help you evolve. “There is a lesson in almost everything you do and everything you experience, and getting the lesson is how you move forward… Inner wisdom is more precious than wealth, the more you spend it, the more you gain.”

When you’re doing the work you’re meant to do, it feels right: Oprah taught that when you’re doing the work you were meant to do, “everyday is a bonus regardless of what you are getting paid.” In her early career, Oprah had an amazing opportunity to be a news anchor. No matter how hard she tried, she couldn’t find herself in that role. She was ultimately fired, but consequently reassigned to a talk show in Baltimore. The second she sat down on the stage of the talk show for the first time she said she felt “home” and her whole world changed. “The trick is to learn to check your ego at the door and start checking your gut instead.” She goes on, “Forget about the fast lane, if you really want to fly, harness your power to your passion. Honor your calling, everybody has one. Trust your heart and success will come to you.”

The secret to finding happiness: Oprah counseled students to live in the moment. “Whatever has happened to you in the past has no power over this present moment.” Be a part of something, not merely living for yourself alone. Oprah taught a lesson she has come to know over the course of her career:  “In order to be truly happy you have to live along with and have to stand for something larger than yourself because life is a reciprocal exchange. To move forward, you have to give back.” She concludes with these thoughts, “If you are hurting, you need to help somebody else ease their hurt. When you’re in pain, help somebody else’s pain. And when you’re in a mess, you get yourself out of the mess by helping someone out of theirs… Doing good makes you better… operating from the paradigm of service will make you happy.”

Oprah’s counsel applies to all of you who wish to do great and be great. Whether graduating from high school, college, or into the next phase of your life, serving others will always help you as well in ways you could not expect. She continued to say that “If you choose to offer your skills and talent in service, when you choose the paradigm of service, looking at your life through that paradigm, it turns everything you do from a job into a gift.” What will you allow life to teach you? Will you follow your passions? Will you strive to be truly happy by choosing to serve? The choice is yours as you move forward in the journey of life. But what an incredible journey it can be.


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Dreams -Part 3: Lifelong Dreamers

1/17/2014

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Aristotle said that "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act but a habit". To be truly successful, we must become lifelong learners with lifelong passions.  Making our life’s dreams a reality in one day is about as realistic as constructing the Empire State Building overnight. It takes lifelong effort, learning and enthusiasm. The American chef and TV personality, Julia Child observed, “You’ll never know everything about anything, especially something you love.” Good evidence of a dream worth pursuing is if we think about it constantly, if our thoughts and actions continuously fuel the fire the dream has lit within our soul.

Sometimes when people see their own dreams go unfulfilled, they become pessimistic towards the ambitions of others. These are the types of individuals who people tend to listen to the most when they ought to be listened to the least. Mark Twain warned, “Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.” Don’t listen to those who never went after their dreams, listen to the people who turned their dreams into reality. Find people along the way who can guide you and be open to the possibility that you can do more and be more than you ever imagined. Some people project their own failures and lack of vision on to others. It's important to learn from those who have experienced what you are going through, and can help you learn from their successes and failures. But be careful. There is a fine line between guiding advice born from experience and pessimism derived from personal failures. Nothing was ever done until someone did it for the first time, usually by doing it in a way no one had ever done before.

Don’t quit, don’t give up, and don’t give in. Calvin Coolidge, the 30th president of the United States, said, “Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talent. Genius will not, unrewarded genius is almost a proverb… Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.” There are bound to be setbacks, all that is worth anything in this life takes hard work and determination. Abraham Lincoln, a man well acquainted with hardship himself stated, “My great concern is not whether you have failed but whether you are content with your failure.”  The message President Lincoln was trying to get across is that setbacks will always happen, but how we react to them will define us and our future.

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Dreams -Part 2:  Understanding the True Desires Behind Our Dreams

1/9/2014

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When seeking to fulfill our dreams it is important to know ourselves and what our dreams and passions really are. Too often we think we know our dreams and close the doors to other possibilities. We need to be open to the fact that our dreams can be fulfilled in multiple ways. Each has the potential to be exciting and brilliant in its own way. Let me give you an example.

When I was a young man I had a goal to go to a certain prestigious university. I often told others it was my “dream school” but when it came time to go to college, another opportunity at a different university became available and caused me to rethink my dream. I ultimately attended the second school. Some may say that I let my dream fall by the wayside by not attending my “dream school”. Had I wasted my time on a dream I ultimately never pursued? No! I simply didn't understand what I was really longing for with my life. It was never about a certain school. In college I had countless experiences that enriched my life and broadened my understanding. I came to understand that my real dream was never actually to go to that first school but to get a world class education. That’s what drove me and inspired me. My dream was fulfilled in every way.

Understanding the principle that my real desire was bigger than a certain school opened up countless avenues for my dreams to be fulfilled. Following my real dream led me to new horizons I never would have fathomed as a child. Often seeking after, as Thoreau put it, our castle in the sky will lead us to bigger and more majestic castles than we ever imagined. Be open to that. Is our dream really to perform with the London Symphony Orchestra or would you be more happy making music with your family and friends each day, or perhaps teaching others to develop their musical skills as well. Maybe a combination of those or another not even listed. Their are always great possibilities associated with our dreams that we have yet to foresee. 
So when you're looking ahead and trying to frame your future, make sure you don't leave part of your dream out of the picture. It’s worth thinking about.


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Dreams -Part 1:  The Foundation of Our Dreams

1/3/2014

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This is part 1 in a 3 part blog series about turning dreams into reality.

The great American author, Henry David Thoreau observed, “If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be, now put foundations under them.” We all have dreams, great castles in the sky begging us to ascend up to their lofty heights. But often our dreams go unfulfilled, we never reach that castle and we are left to exclaim as did the poet, “For of all sad words of tongue or pen, the saddest are these: ‘It might have been!’”  

We all have the capacity to become great. But if we are serious about arriving at our castles in the sky than we need to be serious about the foundations we lay under them. Perhaps it is accurate to say that dreams are the blueprint through which the life we desire can be constructed. But if we fail to gain the skills, tools and materials to act on the blueprint than we can never expect our dreams to be fulfilled. Dreaming is a necessary step in the process but it is not the destination.

It is crucial to understand the difference between dreams and goals. It takes commitment and calculated actions to turn our dreams into goals and then into reality. I once read a quote by a man named Thomas Gaines that said, “It is good to dream, but it is better to dream and work. Faith is mighty but action with faith is mightier.” When our dreams are combined with specific plans and a consistent diligent effort, we possess a powerful combination. We have the basic formula for greatness.

When you truly understand your dream in life, take courage and boldly go after it. The bridge between dreams and reality is built with hard and smart work. In the words of Ralph Waldo Emerson, “Dare to live the life you dreamed for yourself. Go forward and make your dreams come true.”

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